salam all,
how are you? wherever you are, i hope you are in a good health. today i want to write something about positive. or be positive in life.
in our life, we should acquire positive attitude in order to live a positive life. sometimes many things happen in our path. but as a human, we have to accept it. i am trying to have a positive life from now on. why? because,i always think negatively. in my life, i have thought whereby when i think negative things before positive things, i am actually preparing myself for any consequences that might arise, by the time the bad things happen i am well prepared mentally and physically. that is why, i sometimes feel sick inside.! you know when you always think about negative stuffs, nagative valves start to move around ur blood, transfer it to all ur body, that's will make u feel weak and it also weaken ur imune system, therefore, u r easy to get sick. you energy also lost. so people, lets start living a positive life.!
How?
ok, i started it by showing a smiling face =) hehe. firstly, u have to adapt with the surroundings and bear in mind that everything is good. try to have positive attitude and mind. i found it very difficult at first especially when im in the office. lately i mean, (after we moved to the third floor). everyone in the floor talking the same shit that sometimes feel annoyed...shit work, shit boss, shit this and shit that,...but after sometimes, when i let myself in, i feel very sick. u know, when every corner talk the same things all negative, then ur mind would also negative, u wanted to make ur work clear, u push urself towards that, that at the end ull feel exhausted, plus, im also a student, so sometimes m not only confront problem at the office, but also in campus, if all negatives, a normal human being like me couldnt stand any longer. that's why, i took it positively. want to know how?alright ~
first, i smile as mush as i can heeeeee =)
second, i mingle with happy people...talk about happy happy things, and laughing my ass off!!!!ok ( jgn laqhooo sudey)
third, i motivated myself by looking at others whose life much worse than me, like by looking at people in syria, and palestine, that will help me to be grateful to what i have in life.
next, read inpiring books ( the life of the Prophet Muhammad PBUH is better)
and when facing with people who always talk negative things, what i do i try to change the topic that he/she is trying to tell, let u influenced them, not to let them influenced you. that's what i do most of time if i feel not right to listen. i ignore. and change the topic.
and sometimes you need some space for yourself, to really feel ur own breathe, ok find the time to do that. ive try it, and it's sometimes work!
Recite Al-Quran and read the meaning, i mean, try to learn what Quran taught us to do. it can deepen ur focus on it , instead thinking about problem. trust me, it's really work plus u get more knowledge!
i also talk to myself, like giving a speech to people, it motivate me somehow.
there are many things that we can do to live a positive life. matter is are we really want to or not?...that's it!if u choose to be happy, then ull get it. it's in ur hand. we as a human cannot run from a problem. problem will always be there, we need to be clever enough to handle it. dont afraid of failure, just try and go chase ur dream. 'every wall is a door".
that's all i think.
lets moved people! be positive and be optimist!
=)
love,
waniey
