FoRgiVenEsS

" If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive "

i wonder how people can easily forgive people who has wronged them? m actually not good in dealing with certain thing...and m totally lost mind if i found out that person is stabbing me at the back...but...life is life anyway...u living in it...whether u like it or not...you have to...no choice...but to accept.
i noe we should forgive then forget...but how??

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

well..i think Mahatma Gandhi was right...only the strong will forgive and forget..for me, forgive is easy...u jst say that u already forget anything..and wanted to start a new chapter...as simple as that...The choice to forgive is only and always yours...


"Forgiveness allows us to let go of the pain in the memory and if we let go of the pain in the memory we can have the memory but it does not control us. When memory controls us we are then the puppets of the past."

it is hard to forgive isnt it? You can forgive and tomorrow you may feel the pain all over again....but as life goes...we shouldnt go back to the past...let bygone be bygone....always remember that you are human. Sometimes people do and say hurtful things. It is important to focus on what you have done to learn from the experience.

"In this life. . . we are unable to forget whatever remains unforgiven. So, if we won't let go of some pain - whose time has now past - then who is to blame for the weight of this burden still being carried on our back?"


"Forgiveness helps you move forward. No one benefits from forgiveness more than the one who forgives! "


In Islam, we have to forgive that person who hurt us....eventhough it is hard to....we live as a brother and sister...as what i said...we are human...not a robot!so, forgiveness is the best way to strengthen relationships between us...We cannot expect Allah’s forgiveness unless we also forgive those who do wrong to us.

In one Hadith the Prophet (PBUH) said that Allah has commanded him about nine things and one of them that he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”

We must keep in mind that as much as we need Allah’s forgiveness for our own sins and mistakes, we must also practice forgiveness towards those who do wrong to us. InsyaAllah....:)

~chanting~

" HE WALKED AWAY "

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YA ALLAH....i need Your Guidance......:(

~NoTa HaTi~

Ya Allah
Jika dia benar untukku
Dekatkanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Jika dia bukan milikku
Damaikanlah hatiku
Dengan ketentuan-Mu

Dialah permata yang dicari
Selama ini baru kutemui
Tapi ku tak pasti rencana Ilahi
Apakah dia kan kumiliki
Tidak sekali dinodai nafsu
Akan kubatasi dengan syariat-Mu
Jika dirinya bukan untukku
Redha hatiku dengan ketentuan-Mu

Ya Allah
Engkaulah tempat kubergantung harapanku
Kuharap diriku sentiasa di bawah rahmat-Mu


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YA ALLAH ....berilah aku kekuatan untuk menempuh ujianMu
YA ALLAH... Kau tetapknlah hatiku
permudahkanlah jalanku....dan jika ini takdirNya untukku aku terima......

SinGle~~

i got a text msg from one of my fren....reminding me that m olredy 24....till now i start to think about my own future....owh...d most impotnt part is that m STILL SINGLE...SINGLE?i hate being single actually...my mother keep asking me bout "BF"...n m olredy tired to tackle dat!!hahahah....yes m still looking...but looking for ur future husband is not dat easy...it is not like picking up something dat u most like..or something dat u think is suit for u...but...for me...wut is impotant is d way he treats u...d way dat he cares for u....like u parents did!!!dat is d most valuable part im looking for......hmmm....i believe i'll fnd smeone oneday!!!!hahahah ( still thinkng about dat!!!!)....SINGLE?....but m not alone!!!i still hv my family n frens..supporting me in every steps that i take...

DOT.

Love,
wani...



Zane Akmal : 24 n stil single..noting wrong wit dat..aha.. ;p chill je~

Mimi Mazlina : what we should be looking now are, permanent job and more knowledge.

Nor Adila Jaafar : AGREE..enjoy betul2, n kumpul harta dulu...


ps : Mr Frog...where r u???

Are Women Human?

IF WOMEN WERE HUMAN would we be sexual and reproductive slaves? Would we be bred, work without pay our whole lives, burned when our dowry money wasn’t enough or when men tired of us, sold for sex because we are not valued for anything else?

IF WOMEN WERE HUMAN, Would we have so little voice in public deliberations and in government in the countries where we live? Would we be imprisoned in houses and stoned and shot for refusing? Would we be beaten nearly to death or to death by men with whom we are close? Would we be trafficked as things for sexual use and entertainment worldwide in whatever form current technology makes possible? Would we be raped in genocide to terrorize and eject and destroy our ethnic communities and raped again in that undeclared war that goes on everyday in every country in the world in what is called peacetime?

IF WOMEN WERE HUMAN, Would our violation be enjoyed by our violators? And IF WE WERE HUMAN, when these things happened, would virtually nothing be done about it?

WHEN WILL WOMEN BE HUMAN???WHEN?? (Mackinnon, 2006,p.42)


ps women is power!yeah!

Im Back~

~ it's has been so long m not here write whatever come across my mind..now m back~started to write again~


ps : what happened to the 'new me'??

Let it Go~

" have a courage to speak up, but try to have a wisdom to listen more"~~

LISTEN~ let ur heart speaks...sometimes it's can see beyond that,and it's bid correctly...ive gone through a hard weeks...but i let it past...its really hurt...but i noe ive to sacrifice for my own good...i let my heart hurt..hurt till i cant breath...but i keep telling my mind to let it go...go along with time...theres a wisdom behind wut had happened in my life.....life is fair enough...n m growing with that....let it go.....

* walk through the dark n ull see a light after that*