New Hobby~

i belive everyone has their own hobby~so do i...lately i was so busy with my job and has little time to really go on with wut intrested me...m not workaholic! that for sure!...

the story began here......my cousin really good in sewing and she planning to make it as her core business...so, she asking me if m interested...at first...it's look so weird coz m not really enjoying sewing...but i try it just for fun....and it's really fun!!so i continue with the sewing lesson with her...for the frist beginner i jus sew a handcract basiccaly around the neck of baju kurung...so simple...i think everyone can make it....( but...it's really need a lot of attention..)

ok...i just sew around the neck and arm....my first step as a beginner...so intresting ( bali je kain kosong...da jahit cmni...jd cantik sgtt...tambah pulak skang byk jenis manik kt pasaran 2...mcm2 bentuk)

So simple...i think everyone can make it...u just need to noe how to make it..but most importantly...enjoy it!!!.....

( lepas neh, my cousin gonna teach me how to sew a baju kurung....da penah try dulu....jahit getah kain 'kureng' pandai n sgt 'renyah'....i love it anyway...and this is my new hobby!!)

~Nota Hati~

" kenapa hati nie rs xtenang?mcm2 dugaan datang~banyak dosa barangkali~Allah da tunjuk dah~Allah tu kan Maha Adil~~"

" kenapa?mungkin ada hikmah disebalik neh~mungkin Allah sayangkan aku~sebab tu Dia pelihara aku~Dia masih bagi aku peluang untuk kembali kepadaNya~Ya ALLAH....sesungguhnya aku hamba yang lemah~"

" Hati kembali mencari apa yang hilang...sesungguhnya aku kalah dalam ujianNya...."

" Hati mencari...hingga bertemu dengan yang memahami~ALLAH yang tentukan...ALLAHlah yang menginginkan hati ini merinduiNya~~"

Puisi Ketika Cinta Bertasbih oleh Sheikh Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Cinta adalah kekuatan,yang mampu mengubah duri jadi mawar,mengubah cuka jadi anggur,mengubah sedih jadi riang,mengubah amarah jadi ramah,mengubah musibah jadi muhibbah,itulah cinta..
Dideklamasikan oleh Ayyatul Husna
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Sekalipun cinta telah ku uraikan,dan ku jelaskan panjang lebar,namun jika cinta kudatangi,aku jadi malu pada keteranganku sendiri…meskipun lidahku telah mampu menguraikan,namun tanpa lidah, cinta ternyata lebih terang..sementara pena begitu tergesa-gesa menuliskannya..kata-kata pecah berkeping-keping,begitu sampai kepada cinta..dalam menguraikan cinta,akal terbaring tak berdaya,bagaikan keldai terbaring dalam lumpur..cinta sendirilah yang menerangkan cinta dan percintaan..
Dideklamasikan oleh Anna AlthaFunnisa

Men are From Mars Women are From Venus~

this book discussed about the diffrences between men and women....quite intresting~here is d things that i think can make ur mind clear about men as well as women...what women want and what men need ~~

• The differences between Men and Women are universal. Women all over the world complain that "He doesn't understand". "He doesn't listen". "Only time he touches me is when he wants sex". And men all over the world complain that "She doesn't want to have enough of sex."

• Men like to be logical. Women like to share and talk even if there is no point in their sharing and talking. Men need to have an objective. They need to see the point in doing something. They can't share for the sake of sharing.

• Men tend to do one thing at a time. Women do many things at a time. Men have a tunnel vision. 95% of their attention is focused on just one thing and 5% on checking of the environment. Women are just the opposite. They are continuously taking in everything that there is in the environment whether it is useful or not.

• Men have their own caves on which the sign states "Please do not disturb." Men like to retreat into their own world where they feel they are in control. Women also have caves but the sign on their caves is "I need to talk". When a man asks a woman what's wrong and she says "Nothing" it really means "Nothing, unless you care to listen and give me an opportunity to talk."

• 90% of women go into therapy because they want to be listened to. They want to be asked questions. They want to feel special. Men hate to be questioned. If men want to talk they'll talk. If they don't want to talk they won't. When a man is locked in his cave, the woman thinks that something is wrong with him and goes in and asks questions. This is a wrong move for the woman to make. Men hate to be interrogated.

• Men want to forget the problems of the day. Women want to remember. A man will say "Forget it, it's no big deal." For a woman she will not rest till the problem is talked about. Her response to the man, who wants to just forget about it and not make a big deal out of it, will be "How can you be so insensitive."

• If the man is at a loss for saying anything when the woman is feeling bad then instead of offering advice he could build her up a bit by saying "I know how much you work during the day to make the kids and myself feel happy. It must be very exhausting." Her unconscious response would be "He understands." The woman craves for understanding.

• Women make noises to get attention. Men make noises to signal "Please leave me alone."

• Women lower stress through talking and sharing. The collectiveness and togetherness which they share is part of their feminity. Men lower their stress by being alone. Women's attitude is that if we can't do anything about it then let's talk about it and suffer together. Men's focus is on solving the problem. And if they can't solve the problem then they make the problem disappear by forgetting about it.

• Men always want to be right. ( yes..they are!)

• Women give more. Men want to get more

• Forgiveness is the key. If someone hurts then one needn't hurt back. As Gandhi said, An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind.

~~ i found it interesting to noe the diffrences between men and women....so many things about our opposite sex that we dont even noe...so Grays really help to explain how men n women behave...their need and thier satisfaction...Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a valuable tool for couples who want to develop deeper and more satisfying relationships with their partners. =)great book...5 stars!thumb up! =)

FoRgiVenEsS

" If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive "

i wonder how people can easily forgive people who has wronged them? m actually not good in dealing with certain thing...and m totally lost mind if i found out that person is stabbing me at the back...but...life is life anyway...u living in it...whether u like it or not...you have to...no choice...but to accept.
i noe we should forgive then forget...but how??

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

well..i think Mahatma Gandhi was right...only the strong will forgive and forget..for me, forgive is easy...u jst say that u already forget anything..and wanted to start a new chapter...as simple as that...The choice to forgive is only and always yours...


"Forgiveness allows us to let go of the pain in the memory and if we let go of the pain in the memory we can have the memory but it does not control us. When memory controls us we are then the puppets of the past."

it is hard to forgive isnt it? You can forgive and tomorrow you may feel the pain all over again....but as life goes...we shouldnt go back to the past...let bygone be bygone....always remember that you are human. Sometimes people do and say hurtful things. It is important to focus on what you have done to learn from the experience.

"In this life. . . we are unable to forget whatever remains unforgiven. So, if we won't let go of some pain - whose time has now past - then who is to blame for the weight of this burden still being carried on our back?"


"Forgiveness helps you move forward. No one benefits from forgiveness more than the one who forgives! "


In Islam, we have to forgive that person who hurt us....eventhough it is hard to....we live as a brother and sister...as what i said...we are human...not a robot!so, forgiveness is the best way to strengthen relationships between us...We cannot expect Allah’s forgiveness unless we also forgive those who do wrong to us.

In one Hadith the Prophet (PBUH) said that Allah has commanded him about nine things and one of them that he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”

We must keep in mind that as much as we need Allah’s forgiveness for our own sins and mistakes, we must also practice forgiveness towards those who do wrong to us. InsyaAllah....:)

~chanting~

" HE WALKED AWAY "

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YA ALLAH....i need Your Guidance......:(

~NoTa HaTi~

Ya Allah
Jika dia benar untukku
Dekatkanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Jika dia bukan milikku
Damaikanlah hatiku
Dengan ketentuan-Mu

Dialah permata yang dicari
Selama ini baru kutemui
Tapi ku tak pasti rencana Ilahi
Apakah dia kan kumiliki
Tidak sekali dinodai nafsu
Akan kubatasi dengan syariat-Mu
Jika dirinya bukan untukku
Redha hatiku dengan ketentuan-Mu

Ya Allah
Engkaulah tempat kubergantung harapanku
Kuharap diriku sentiasa di bawah rahmat-Mu


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YA ALLAH ....berilah aku kekuatan untuk menempuh ujianMu
YA ALLAH... Kau tetapknlah hatiku
permudahkanlah jalanku....dan jika ini takdirNya untukku aku terima......