" If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive "
i wonder how people can easily forgive people who has wronged them? m actually not good in dealing with certain thing...and m totally lost mind if i found out that person is stabbing me at the back...but...life is life anyway...u living in it...whether u like it or not...you have to...no choice...but to accept.
i noe we should forgive then forget...but how??
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
well..i think Mahatma Gandhi was right...only the strong will forgive and forget..for me, forgive is easy...u jst say that u already forget anything..and wanted to start a new chapter...as simple as that...The choice to forgive is only and always yours...
"Forgiveness allows us to let go of the pain in the memory and if we let go of the pain in the memory we can have the memory but it does not control us. When memory controls us we are then the puppets of the past."
it is hard to forgive isnt it? You can forgive and tomorrow you may feel the pain all over again....but as life goes...we shouldnt go back to the past...let bygone be bygone....always remember that you are human. Sometimes people do and say hurtful things. It is important to focus on what you have done to learn from the experience.
"In this life. . . we are unable to forget whatever remains unforgiven. So, if we won't let go of some pain - whose time has now past - then who is to blame for the weight of this burden still being carried on our back?"
"Forgiveness helps you move forward. No one benefits from forgiveness more than the one who forgives! "
In Islam, we have to forgive that person who hurt us....eventhough it is hard to....we live as a brother and sister...as what i said...we are human...not a robot!so, forgiveness is the best way to strengthen relationships between us...We cannot expect Allah’s forgiveness unless we also forgive those who do wrong to us.
In one Hadith the Prophet (PBUH) said that Allah has commanded him about nine things and one of them that he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”
We must keep in mind that as much as we need Allah’s forgiveness for our own sins and mistakes, we must also practice forgiveness towards those who do wrong to us. InsyaAllah....:)