good conversation~

i was jus hv a nice chat with my frens....we shared stories...love life...career....study....n i found out tht our conversation change from time to time..i mean...we used to talk about freinds when we are still young...then when we reach a teenage life it differs...we start to talk about boys, hobby, friends, love life, secret admirers and all those things like a teenage would hv.......then came to enter university's life....we change again...most chatting goes to study, quizzes, lecturers,friends, boyfriends, scandals....now m turning 24 and again conversation change whenever i hang out with my friends...we start to talk about work, career, working environment, lifestyle, POLITICS, this is a fact tht i accept sometimes...age really play an important role in leading one conversation....and at a very different level....i wont speak about boys whenever i had conversation with my cousins most age around 6-13 yrs old...n i wont talk about marriage life whenever m with my lil sis...sometimes we hv something in common...i would become me 13 yrs old back then whenever m with her...so thts wut i mean diffrent level...some people might not really enjoy with some discussion on certain topic..thus they would probably take little attention on wut we are saying or discuss... me also sometimes like tht...especially when my friends start to talk about their love life...kinda bored unless u said something tht is informative...tht can be useful when u enter to any kind of relationship...

sometimes i feel insulted especially when the discussion is aimed at me....i try to brush it off and going with the flow....have a dry sense of humour...thts standard of life , sometimes we feel tht way...so we hv to be aware of tht...specially when we talk to someone tht's not at our level of thinking...it is always happen to me....most of the time i just nod my head even though i disagree with some of their words.....dont be so "show off" like u know everything, in facts try to accept their opinion..we would end up with a great conversation.

plus...something tht i wanna share...if u seen someone among ur frens n family or even neighbours do something wrong and u wanting to put things right, wut would you do?

yes ! give them advice

but will they accept it? some people feel hard to accept other's advice......it's happen to me many times...wut i do is i make it as fun...i try to make it funny...so tht nobody will get hurt....thts the way i give my advice....but sometimes it depends....if someone seeking an advice from me i'd rather be serious in putting myself in her/his shoes.....n try to understand their situation...most importantly you have to :

1) feel love

2) sincere to help

3) focus n listen

4) accept n adapt n

5) willing to participate in the situation

thts enuf to make one's smile.......and if it is getting worse just keep quiet.....silent means everything.... is different when u talk to someone who is married....but i enjoy talk to them...listen to their advice bc they hv more experince as compared to us....in other words to prepare myself to enter tht phase... think before u say something coz it might hurts someone's feeling...dont be overeacting when speaking to someone bc a great talker is a great lier =)


p/s best lepak ngn kengkawan n cite pasal career n lifesyle msg2 =) ohhhh m grown up already =)