the good that we hate

i have seen so many people in my life and observed different kind of behaviour they possessed. my life is simple. if they can accept me. my pleasure for me to be one of them. i can get along with anyone i like.nothing unusual if we hate someone. (in polite tone...uneasy with someone we know).. sometimes i found it funny but they said that is the sauce added in ur food of life..good or bad , .like or not, i have to accept it. observe and learn is more important than anything else. Allah said in the Quran " enjoin what is good and forbid what is wrong". i dont noe why sometimes i got a weird feeling about something that is nothing to do with me at all.in the corner of my mind i always put a negative view about something tht i dont even familiar with.recently i saw someone's post something on facebook. nothing peculiar about post a shout and upload some pics on facebook, but i feel tht kinda of person try to boast like ' i am rich, i can afford it, i have money, who cares'. reasons y i said so..ok..he uploaded some pics showing tht he was admitted to the hospital...i accepted that. but i wonder why every time he uploaded pictures he will include wht hospital he was admitted to together with wut kind of ward he is staying during the admitting period...hmmm ( sounds like m jealous of him?) m not jealous but to some extent i am wondering about his intention of doing tht... maybe m so paranoid of observing people's behaviour, categorizing it in different category tht i hve create my own ( bahaya aku ni).

some people becoming 'big-headed' if they think they are most brilliant among others, ironically, they are but adamant of accepting other's opinion. they always right and we always wrong. they used sarcastic words to upset others. see ... m observing...haha..but i failed to conclude any..is not a research pon..but i learn from what i see...Islam encourages us to do a good deed, as long as it is not against shariah, we can hold onto it. husnuzun is encourages too...so no more negative thinking especially to people tht we dont even noe him/her ( untuk diri sendiri)..

Disclaimer : this messages in only for the writer. the writer concerns about herself of being "minah kepo" tht she most hated before. strictly to remind her to be good nex time..insyaAllah