first love

do you believe in first love?

people say that first love is hard to forget..is that true? for me, i believe that past love taught me to love better. many cases , especially married couples divorced because of the power of the first love, question arise, what on earth are they living in? be realistic, and i think person who cant simply forget their first love is the person who has no tendency to success in this world. why look at the back? move on....Love is a gift from Allah and the word FIRST LOVE never exist if we love because of Allah, i am of opinion. people come and they go, that is normal, we cant smell when is our death, it is maktub...wherever we go we belong to the Creator, so why concern with the first love? and break the relationship in order to find a true love, which is first love? i dont understand...yes, i am realistic! i believe that if i cant own something, it is because that thing is not belong to me. if Allah wants me to own it, then it will be mine.

i have a conversation with a single mother who just has been divorced, and she said that her ex-husband is going to marry his first love. i cant believe this kind of joke tht her husband is making. if u still over ur ' fisrt love ' why marry someone else? is that because u need someone to amend the pieces of your broken heart that your first love has left for u? thts is so unfair! and ridiculous. but that is reality! wherever you go you ll find this type of person. to some extend, i wondering, love that he built is just a fake! so how can we know that love is a true love? love has no smell, no taste, thus we cant sense whether that love is true or not. that is what i always afraid of..............

what if you get married and your husband is not entirely happy? and always thought about his first love?.............

what if after you have a children then your husband leaves you?...and that because of his first love....

what happen if love that your husband gives to you, is just a shadow of his first love?....

above all, first love is nothing but a little foolishness.

DOT.


love,

waniey

p/s i am now reading a romantic story about prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and Aa'isyah (ra) , our ultimate example.....